Lost

The Lost spells book

I’ve chosen lost as my word of the week. Not as a negative, but recognizing a moment of shifting to a new episode and leaving some aspects behind. The summer holidays are officially over. Two members of the family have packed their bags and are calling elsewhere home, while the rest of us adapt. I find myself cooking too much pasta and popping into empty bedrooms, momentarily forgetting that I need to text them the question or information now.

The weekend was a flurry of last minute buying to set the Youngest up for his new adventure. I kid myself that, with more than a month’s notice, I would be exceedingly organised, but I think we all know the truth. I’m a gal that likes to work up against a deadline. Fortunately, we used some of Eldest’s kit as she’s finished Uni for now and will be travelling lighter, I expect.

We dropped Youngest off on Sunday. It rained. We looked as soggy as the other parents dropping off their offspring and doing the last minute food shopping. Always sad to say goodbye. I’m a little lost without my boy, but also massively excited about his new adventure at Uni.

Lost on the Syrens walk

Syrens walk

One down and onto the next departure. Middle daughter is starting her second year at Uni and moves into a house with friends. She moved most of her kit over there before the summer, so it was food and clothes preparation for her.

We headed down to the Outlet stores in Street. Our usual route was closed, so ignoring the clearly marked diversion signs, I took the lesser used lanes. I like the feeling of treading (or driving, in this case) a path less trod and feeling lost. It paid off and we also encountered the mile markers for the Syrens walk, which is on my bucket list.

Syrens walk

Twenty five years ago an artist and a musician set up mile markers for a walk from Wells to Glastonbury Tor, or the other way round. It is an eight mile walk, mainly on a quiet route. At each mile there is a boulder with a bell set in to it, that plays a note if you hit it gently with a stone. Altogether, they make a tune which sounds like Big Ben. We found two of the mile markers and jumped out of the car to ring them.

Somerset Levels

I’ll do it on foot next time. Taking the bus back to the start as eight miles is enough for me.

The Lost Spells exhibition

The Lost Spells Exhibition

Next day, we decided to go to Bath. More shopping, but as a palate cleanser for all the inevitable decision making, we popped into Jackie Morris and Robert Macfarlane’s “the Lost Spells” Exhibition. I’ve wanted to go all summer and I’m so glad we made it. The art is fabulous, but the words truly resonated with me. So much that I bought the book and spent the rest of the week diving into it at odd moments. I loved it as much as, if not more than the previous “Lost Words Spell Songs” book I picked up years ago.

It’s Jane Austen’s 250 year anniversary and Bath is celebrating. Plenty of people dressed up in period costumes, visiting the city. It was strange viewing the old masterpieces upstairs in the art gallery, dodging people dressed as if they were expecting Mr Darcy to come round the corner any minute.

Second University drop off that evening and now we are back to a three person household, plus a sad and slightly lost hound.

Homegrown tomato
Homegrown tomato

Outdoor tomatoes and other harvests

This year has been the perfect conditions for outdoor tomatoes in our garden. I only planted them out when I found I had far too many seedlings and an empty raised bed. They have done me proud. Even out producing the greenhouse. I’ve processed them into pasta sauce and they are in the freezer for winter, although I may still can them.

I lost some to slugs, but very few. So long as we get more sun, which is looking hopeful, I should have just as many to harvest and more jars to fill.

This weekend is the real start of apple season for us. More apples to juice and others to process for pie filling. Our trees are heavy with apples, so it will take me the best part of a month to organise them.

Everyone has apples. I came home during the week, and a neighbour had left apples on my kitchen table, from another neighbour. Then today at Pilates another friend offered me more apples, which I politely declined.

It is the season.

Dahlias are still doing well.
Dahlias are still doing well.

If anyone wants me, I’ll be the person lost under a pile of apples.

Joining in with Anne’s Word of the week linky. What’s your word?

Word of the Week linky

12 comments

  1. I like how you have used lost as a positive word as opposed to the negative we usually associate it with.
    It sounds like uni drop-offs went well if a little soggy. I wish your kids the best of luck on their new journeys.
    Hopefully, Hero will get used to a quieter house, as I’m sure you will too.
    Thanks for sharing the story about Sirens walk, that’s so interesting and very creative. I hope you get to do the whole walk and, of course, ring those bells soon.
    Good luck with all those apples!

    1. Hero is feeling it. He’s blocking doors to make sure no one escapes without him knowing. I’m looking forward to doing the walk even more now I’ve see the mile markers.

  2. It sounds like the new family dynamic is taking some getting used to.
    How exciting for your youngest to be off to Uni. Good luck to him.
    That does sound like a great walk and the exhibition sounds wonderful.
    My dad has a few apple trees and pears and he is struggling to give them away as everyone does seem to have apple trees now!

  3. I have a dwarf apple tree in a pot, alongside a pear and plum. I am looking forward to trying the apples and pears as it’s the first “proper” crop. Poor Hero. They don’t like change do they. All the best to your kids on their new adventures.

  4. It must take some getting used to having your children move out….OMG I WISH IT WOULD HAPPEN HERE! (I don’t know what I’d do without them but I’d also like some peace and quiet and a smaller house to look after!) They say be careful what you wish for. I love the syrens walk markers with the bells, they look amazing. We have trees at the bottom of our garden and for the first time in 12 years of living here, one is covered in apples. (Maybe someone threw some seeds over and it’s taken this long to grow?) Sadly it’s more over my neighbours garden than mine. Maybe they will share because when they fall their garden is going to be covered! I’ll be checking back for apple recipe’s hopefully! Anyway, good luck to your young people on their journey’s and I hope Hero doesn’t get too lonely 😉

    1. Yes. Careful what you wish for. I hope you get plenty of apples to make some beautiful dishes. I love our apple trees. Not a lot of work, but they give so much back.

  5. Lost sounds like a good word to describe the shift in things for you and your family. I hope your Youngest is settling in well at uni and your Middle daughter is settling into her new house with her friends. I love those mile markers. It sounds like a lovely walk. Lovely to be harvesting tomatoes and apples and your dahlias are beautiful. #WotW

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